Support systems serve as the bedrock for realising our dreams, providing invaluable assistance and guidance at every stage of our journey. Let us dissect the three key types of support systems. 

Let us start with the forming System. These are the individuals who recognise our potential even before we do. They spot our talents and abilities, often offering opportunities that propel us towards our goals.

In our prior discussion concerning self-leadership, we delved into the essential pillars assisting individuals through arduous periods. Our attention now turns to detractors, those who may impede our path to success. This exploration will reveal the identity of detractors, methodologies for engagement, and strategies to adeptly navigate around them.

How does one identify detractors? Manifesting in various guises, each presents unique challenges and requires specific strategies for navigation. Discerning their motivations and behaviours is crucial for mitigating their impact.

The wisdom shared in the Book of Proverbs holds true – “As a man thinketh, so is he.” Your journey begins with your mindset. Shed limiting thoughts and beliefs that shackle your potential. Athletes like Michael Jordan, the late Kobe Bryant, and Tiger Woods attribute their success to a mindset that perseveres through temporary pain and delays for gratification. These athletes were not necessarily the most naturally gifted; their mindset was simply different. The self-led must shift from a survival mindset to one focused on making a lasting impact and witness the transformative power of your thoughts. 

Amidst prevailing uncertainties today, many grapple with discovering their purpose, achieving ambitions, or simply regaining stability. This juncture demands introspection and the exercise of self-leadership, which I interpret as the deliberate process of managing one’s internal fortitude to uplift oneself, leveraging available resources for support throughout the journey. Within this article, I aim to explore three pivotal aspects: oneself, one’s support system, and potential detractors.